Drawing a belt is not a method of education. Novosibirsk and Novosibirsk region: latest news, objective analysis, current comments. Fairly, consistently, with love
Svetlana Kalaida
In a good family, there is never any punishment, and this is the most correct way of family education.
A. S. Makarenko.
When raising children, parents daily resort to one or another method of education. Whether it be punishment or encouragement.
The usual method of influence is punishment with a belt, which requires neither effort nor much time, this is the only method of discipline that is widely accepted and understood by parents, and is the least suitable of all conceivable methods of education.
Is punishment with a belt necessary at all, because this is violence and can cause psychological trauma to a child for life.
Punishment with a belt is not only dangerous for children’s health, but also negatively affects their intellectual development.
When raising a child with physical punishment, parents should think about who they will raise in the future.
Encouragement is a more effective educational tool than punishment. Punishment only stops bad actions, and encouragement focuses on good actions.
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According to 8% of Russians, a belt is a necessary way of raising children, and 58% of our compatriots consider physical force for educational purposes to be justified only in exceptional cases. It is interesting that this opinion is unanimously shared by both residents of the Russian Federation who have and those who do not have children. But among men there are much more categorical supporters of assault: 11% of men and only 5% of women said that a belt is a “necessary method of education.”
About a third (34%) of Russians consider physical punishment of children unacceptable in principle.
Total sample size: 1800 respondents.
Customer: radio station "Police Wave".
Study population: economically active population of Russia aged 18 years and older.
Question: Do you think methods of physical coercion (slap, slap, belt) are acceptable as a way of raising children?
The respondents' answers were distributed as follows:
Respondents' comments:
Yes, this is a necessary method of education.
“That’s how my parents raised me. It turned out quite well."
“I don’t think there are many parents who have never punished their children. I'm not saying you need to beat yourself to death, but in some cases you need to be tough. If, contrary to suggestions, he puts a carnation into a socket or climbs under the wheels of a moving car, he will get it in the butt.”
“The child must understand that there will be punishment for an offense, and not just talk - physical punishment should be more offensive than painful.”
Only in exceptional cases
“My child is a real little devil, and this is not even because of indulgences in upbringing, just genes. Sometimes a good spank is the only way to influence.”
“Our children have become so painfully susceptible, so first of all we need to act with persuasion and persuasion, but it is in exceptional cases that “one blow replaces 100 hours of political work.”
“Theoretically, I am against physical punishment, but in practice... sometimes my nerves can’t stand it. I can say, as a mother of two children, that each child is born with his own character and he himself suggests which methods are best suited for his upbringing. From birth, the eldest son responds to shouting, spanking, and punishment with even greater whims, protests, insults, and even worse behavior. Since he began to understand human speech well, the most basic method of influencing him was persuasion, explanation, and persuasion. And sometimes you can’t stop the younger one with anything other than a spank...”
“This is not a method! Unfortunately, words don't always work. And if your nerves give way... therefore, “unpopular” measures are used.”
No, I consider corporal punishment unacceptable in principle.
“I’ve been beaten since childhood, a lot: it hurts and it doesn’t hurt, in every way. Especially during the school period. Mom demanded a lot from me. This does not help mutual understanding. It hardens. It's horrible. It doesn't give anything. It didn't make me any better, it didn't make me any worse. When was my birthday younger brother, he got it too - both from his mother and from me. I'm so sorry that I was aggressive and intolerant. I just didn’t have any other model of behavior before my eyes. I responded with the same answer that I managed to receive. Thank God, in adult life I missed it..."
“Children are our reflection. If you don’t like the way you look today, you don’t break the mirror, do you?”
“For some reason, when talking with adults, we don’t use the belt as an argument, no matter how stupid they are, but we initially put children in a dependent position, immediately showing that they have no right to have their own opinion? What kind of personality will grow in this case?”
“The most valuable thing in life is personal freedom. Any violence is unacceptable, because... The child is small, but a personality! And everything that is laid in childhood shapes an adult! And... beloved children should be spoiled!”
“A Man was born! From the first day of birth you need to be equal to him. Yes - it is a great job to raise your child as a person worthy of being one. You need to be tolerant of him at any age, convincing him of something only with your own good example, tact and word."
“Corporal punishment is carried out, as a rule, by people with insufficient intelligence - or people with pathological psychoses... which, in principle, is the same thing.”
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